Theories In Family...

There are many different theories when it comes to the family and how it works, however, in my blog post today I have to discuss four that are fairly common and used by many to explain different aspects.

The first theory is Conflict Theory, which clearly means that when there are less resources to share or have there are more problems within families. For instance when a father loses his job there are many problems that will come about. It could be that the parents have to cut back on their spending habits and that some extra activities will have to go to pay for bills. These lack of resources and sacrifices will cause conflicts between family members.

The next theory is Exchange Theory, which basically means that we have a give and take relationship. It is well balanced and each person's needs are being met. No one person is doing more than the other and this particular relationship may have more depth to it that others because they understand the needs and wants of the other person.

The Family Systems Theory means that what we create together as a family is greater than what we create individually. Think about your own family... Do you think you would be better with them or without them? Would your life still work if they did not play their particular role in your own life? This theory proves that family members have their own role within a family and when they want to change or break from this role adjustments may be needed because there is true value in each role that is given.

The last theory is Symbolic- Interaction Theory, which means that every interaction or behavior represents or symbolizes something about the relationship. This is self explanatory, but an example could be when two people kiss when they first see each other are mostly likely dating or are seeing one another. The kiss symbolizes them being together.

I hope these theories opened up your eyes a little more to how complex and in depth families can be. There is no one theory to explain families because each family is different and functions differently. Please ponder about your family and think about what roles certain people play within the home.

Be Kind to Others,
Gabby Smith