Sexual Relationships...

Let's get excited... We are talking Sexual Intimacy and Responses today!

First off we need to start off my saying that there are four stages of sexual responses. They include Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm, and Resolution.

Now something that I have noticed is that men and women are very different when it comes to sexual things, especially about how they talk about sex or other things. Women are more likely to have sex when they feel safe and secure with their man, but men are more likely to have sex with their woman in order to feel safe and secure with them. See people we are definitely different! The question that comes to my mind then is how do we get on the same page? If we both need different things in order to feel safe and secure, but always want to have sex where is the solution or compromise.

I think it comes from communicating and understanding where the other person is coming from. I believe that sometimes men need to step up their game and show women that they are secure with them, but on the other hand women need to have sex with them so that they will feel secure in their relationship.

Many challenges can happen as well while being intimate with one another because our bodies are different. Our timing, hormones, and different experiences can cause for some unsatisfying encounters with one another. We need to remember that intimacy should be fun, but also about compromise. Work with one another and remember that if you really care about this person than compromising will benefit you both in the long run!

Be Kind to Others,
Gabby Smith